Teach me to be ‘Prudent’

The children of this world are more prudent in dealing with their own generation than the children of light. 

Jesus gave us this parable because he wanted to teach us to think strategically.   When faced with imminent job loss, the steward in the story sprang into action.   He identified his personal strengths and weaknesses and then developed a plan to make the most of his gifts.   Just so, Jesus says, we can be strategic in sharing our faith by considering who we are, where we are most comfortable, and what we might need to say to someone.

First, when you think about “who you are,” you should also think about the person you are trying to reach.   Do you find it easier to talk to people one-on-one, or do you prefer a group setting, maybe in a coffee shop with other people?   That will affect how you approach someone.   Now, think about the person you want to reach.   How would they be most open to relating to you or building a relationship?

Next, think about “where” you and your friend would be at ease.   The two of you might already be involved in a group sharing common interests, like a book club or sports team.   That could be a good setting to start up a conversation about the Lord.   If you like to have people over, you could invite them to your house.   Or if they would be more comfortable, go to a restaurant or social event at your church instead.

Finally, think about “what to say.”   This doesn’t have to be daunting.   In fact, studies show that connecting with another person has more to do with listening than speaking.   Look at Jesus: he asked more than two hundred questions in the gospels!   Pay close attention to what your friend is sharing with you.   Then, when you share about Jesus’ work in your life, it will come in the context of a caring relationship.

A simple plan—that’s all it takes to open the door for deeper conversations.   Let the Lord work through your friendship.   Let him help you become a witness of God’s tenderness and mercy.

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